INTOLLERANT TEENAGERS
As we go through news or newspapers we always hear headlines about intollerance among the citizens then what's special about intollerance among teenagers?? Exactly, the word 'TEENAGER' itself
Its very surprising to hear these types of headlines. Even when we go through a crime based serial, we would often see small kids committing them.
When I go through these news or serials my mom often comments "INTOLLERENCE AMONG TEENS IS INCREASING" but have anyone tried to find out why?
Teenagers are growing more sensitive. They often get hurt on every small thing said to them. Parents have to be much careful while talking to them.
Parents blame the teenagers for these problems. They blame computers, mobile phones or their company for it.
I don't disagree with this but I define it just as a 'nail in the coffin'.
Lack of communication and understanding among the teenagers and their parents is the actual reason behind this.
When a child shares his problem with his parents they often ignore it, not giving any consideration this makes the child seek a solution somewhere else, not getting a correct answer they get misguided and therefore make mistakes.
So, Who will they blame? Of course, their parents because they neither communicated with them nor tried to understand them and then WHAT??? They'll harm someone or THEMSELVES.
It's much needed from the parents to respect and understand there teenagers. Many would give excuses by comparing the new with the older generation but let me tell them,
Earlier generation had joint families where someone or the other would understand and communicate with them and no negative energy could misguide them but this generation only has their parents who are busy the whole day.
Earlier, Teenagers didn't hold there feelings for long, they could share it with someone whether its there aunt or granny but now they have to hold themselves.
Thus, building up there frustration which grows and becomes anger and finally leading them to become stubborn and INTOLLERANT... This does not only ends the child's future but also destroys thier parents aspirations.
So rather than being a parent of your child try to be more of a bestie!
HumanbeingXO
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